I’m a divorced mother with two young children, but I am not looking for someone to “rescue” me.
I do want to be in a relationship, with the right person, and I do want to be married again.
Turns out that’s actually not what dudes want, at least at first. So, don’t serve yourself to a guy on a silver platter… To be clear, this doesn’t mean you should be a bitch or play hard to get or change who you are as a person.
The women sensed this and recoiled from them instantly. Not asking out a woman you're interested in is not being patient but being stupid. Patience is also outstanding at ATTRACTING women too. Smooth men I knew would be there at a second one of the women called their names. Smooth Dude's Name]" they would stop what they were doing and talk.
Women, on initial dates, just simply want to have fun and have a good time. I, on the other hand, simply greeted them back and KEPT WALKING. Smooth men came across as eager and desperate by always willing to stop whatever they were doing to chit chat while I gave the impression of 'importance' and 'hard to obtain' by controlling my eagerness.
In the end, both women ditched these guys and went out with me. How could guys with more experience, confidence, wit, and looks be shot down by the most in-demand women in the area?
And how could someone like me (who lacks in these areas) succeed when such smooth ladies-men fail? These guys failed because they came on entirely too strong, too fast.He’s content working construction, but exhausted with the extra weight of helping in his dad’s restaurant every weekend.