Lissa's post: "First of all, the majority of the regular members here are women.
Maybe Double Your Dating works with brainless skanks who just want a one night stand, but it doesn't work with women with any intelligence or sense of self-worth. Contrary to what you say and believe, the type of guy I wanted is the kind who isn't so insecure that he has to read a manual to "get chicks." The type of guy who doesn't want to "get chicks" or "double his dating", but to have a real relationship with a real woman. I just described my husband." Serendipity's post: "The reason I worry about it?
It’s possible and within reach for absolutely any man who wants it - but first he must learn what it really takes to find, grow, and keep it.
The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so I've taken your advice and am using the internet as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice.
I've had mixed results so far, I think a few took the teasing the wrong way as some of them would suddenly stop replying. The first time I went on this site I was chatting to a few girls and one of them ended up giving me her mobile and asking if we could go for coffee before I had chance to.
Anyway my question: You suggest that a date should simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which for all of the reasons you give makes perfect sense to me.
But once I've done the tea & conversation with this girl, do you have any suggestions for other dates where I can come across as the 'lover' instead of the 'provider'. Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating", but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner twice as much as you used to".
It's success led to a follow up ebook as well as CD's, DVD's, live seminars and coaching, propelling De Angelo into the limelight.