So, do you have any advice for how to get my message to stand out? Most dating sites have a flirty option which allows you to express your interest without having to actually message a person.(On How About We, this is the “I’m Intrigued” button, on OKCupid it’s a wink.) In general, this is not a good way for a guy to approach a girl on an online dating site.Besides, when you tell a woman she’s beautiful, chances are you’re not.
When a girl sees that you are not only interested in her looks, but also made an effort to read her profile and learn more about her, she gets the impression you’re different from almost any of the other guys texting her boring bs.
Whether it’s Match.com, Ok Cupid, POF, or Tinder, it sucks sending a message to a girl you really like and getting ignored.
This is why most guys give up entirely within just a few months.
By the way, complimenting a woman on her personality is not being done often, so you’ll definitely stand out.
Also keep in mind that bad grammar, spelling mistakes and poor language are huge turnoffs.
It’s incredibly frustrating and exhausting when you put hours into online dating and don’t hear back from the women you message.